John Duane Gray "JD"

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September 18, 1934 ~ June 19, 2026

Born in: Denver, Colorado
Resided in: Arvada, Colorado

John Duane Gray passed away on June 19, 2026, following a lengthy battle with dementia. John was born on September 18th, 1934, in Denver, Colorado to George and Helen Gray. John had one brother, Daniel Lee Gray (deceased 1970). John grew up in Denver and graduated from Denver West High School in 1952. John joined the Marines and served from 1952 to 1955, which included a tour in Korea at the end of the Korean War.

After military service, John married his first wife, Connie Wilson (deceased) and in 1957 they had his only child, a daughter, Kalole Lani Gray (deceased 2024). In 1969 John married the love of his life, Mary Lewis. They were married 48-years until Mary’s passing in 2016. John is survived by his twin nephews Gene and George Gray, to whom he was a father figure. He inspired them to become career police officers like himself. He is also survived by many great and great-great nieces and nephews.

After the Marines, John began his work life as an over the road truck driver for Gates Rubber Company. In 1961, he joined the Denver Police Department where he served with dedication and distinction until his retirement in 1999. John was notorious in the Denver community for his tireless pursuit of drug dealers and drug users. He was a pioneer in detecting and apprehending those who produced LSD in the mid 1960’s.

John was well known locally and nationally as an expert in script fraud investigation and taught in academies across the country. John impacted the careers of many officers, both inside and outside the Denver Police Department, through his work ethic, teaching, and mentoring. He is well revered in the history of the Denver Police Department.

John was known for taking great care of himself. He worked out religiously throughout his life and was very athletic. He was a pillar of good health. John competed in flag football, fast-pitch softball, basketball, boxing, horseback riding and the World Police Olympics. John ran the Denver Police Boxing program for many years and boxed into his fifties. He was described by many as a physical specimen.

John enjoyed life immensely with Mary. They did many things together. This included running a farm in Strasburg, both, while working full-time. John and Mary especially enjoyed traveling with their camper trailer, visiting Mary’s relatives in Louisiana and Alabama; and being camp hosts annually for many years in Texas.

John was loved, respected and idolized by those who knew him. He will be deeply missed and long remembered. He was one of the best.

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Inurnment: August 10, 2026 11:00 am

Ft. Logan National Cemetery
3698 S. Sheridan Blvd.,
Denver, Colorado 80236


Celebration of Life: August 10, 2026 11:30 am - 2:30 pm

VFW # 9644
2680 West Hampden Ave.
Sheridan, Colorado 80110


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  1. I have fond memories of John from my time as a Denver police officer, and particularly from the time that I was assigned to the DPD Vice Bureau. John Gray was a cop’s cop from the word go. His work ethic and enthusiasm in the pursuit of drug dealers is nothing short of legendary. Rest in peace, John…You certainly left your mark on the Denver Police Department!

  2. Condolences to the Gray family. John was a stand-up guy and a true warrior. R.I.P. fellow veteran. Your reward is at hand.

  3. I didn’t know John real well but every time I would see him he was always friendly and helpful.
    Rest in peace Brother!

  4. I mentioned to a retired 80 badge number that John had passed.
    His response…”Oh, no! You mean the iron man?”
    Without flare or fanfare, John’s bearing, character, work ethic and principles impressed all generations of cops and law enforcement in the entire region.
    I was fortunate to have worked with him in Vice and Intelligence.
    My sincere condolences to his family and friends.
    Rest in peace, Iron Man.

  5. You were the best, John! You’ll be missed, brother! My condolences to the family, as John now sits among the angels.

  6. John, it was my privilege to know both you and Mary. You were a great couple together and fun to around. You are without a doubt a wonderful and respectful individual. Also you were one the best police officer I ever knew. Rest in peace my friend and may you and Mary be reunited in God’s almighty grace.

  7. John and Mary were my close friends. I stood up with Mary at their wedding and spent many weekends with them at their ranch in Strasberg. We had many good years of friendship and I’m sorry they’re both gone. John was a good man!!

  8. I knew John as a result of my 30-year career as Pharmaceutical Inspector for the Colorado Board of Pharmacy. I could always call on John when I came upon Rx forgeries for controlled substances. He was great guy! He’ll be missed by all!
    Always do good JG!!


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